So I’ve been holding off on posting this update for a little while because to be honest it doesn’t quite feel real yet. BUT….
I’VE BOUGHT MY LAND!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! YAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAYYYYYYY!!!!!!!!
Interestingly not the land that I’ve mentioned in past posts. I got to a point where I had to give up hope on that property. In a year and a half (almost 2 years now) I chased and chased and chased this guy to get his shit together and sell me the land. I literally left a voicemail on his phone every 2-3 weeks chasing an update and only spoke to him twice in 18 months. (You’d think I’d take a hint huh… 🙂 ) In February I found out through the council website that the subdivision was approved in December but he hadn’t contacted me. I finally managed to get him on the phone and he said that his sister was holding the process up. And shortly after that his other sister who I have regular contact with casually slipped “I don’t think it’s ever going to happen” into the conversation so that really put the doubt in my head. So I gave up and made the conscious decision to let it go as a viable option.
The very next day I decided to look through old real estate listings that I’d previously written off and quite by accident this property came up. I had looked at the listing when it was originally advertised in January this year but quickly dismissed it for dumb reasons (lets not go there). But really taking a good look at it closer… it ticked every box. In fact it is the polar opposite of the other property in every way. There are trees on my property (the other one had 3 trees on 25 acres), there’s a massive dam on the property (the other one had zero water, even the water tanks were empty), there are 2 little straw bale cottages on my property(!!), there’s existing solar setup on my land, there’s a small orchard… The beginnings of everything I want to establish is there with little effort. In every way this property is THE ONE, even down to my secret wish list of things that would be nice to have but weren’t on the “must have” list.
All it took was letting go. To say that I was focused on the first block of land is an understatement. Obsessed more like it. As in, every waking thought was poured into that land. Dreaming, planning even shopping for a land that wasn’t mine. And I should have clued on earlier that it wouldn’t be mine as everything from the start was all an uphill slog. From the lack of communication to the amount of work and money I’d have to pour into this land to make it what I want. All very hard work. And ultimately I could make it work but the ease in which MY property has happened and how (relatively) easy it will be to set up is pretty astounding. I was clearly holding on too tight and the moment I let go the right one came into view.
There are other interesting connections. I first saw it on the 06/04 (6 April), the address number is 604, my PO box is 64 all of of which reduce to a 1 and we settle on 1 July 🙂 I like little synchronistic alignments like that. A week after they accepted my offer I thought I lost the property as I made my offer subject to the council report that is included in the sale contract. The council report details whether you can build on the property. When the final version of the contract came in my land size was too small to build on according to the report. I was absolutely gutted. It just didn’t make sense to me that the perfect property be given to me and feel SO right and then taken away. A week later after I got my solicitor to check with the sellers as to why it was listed with building entitlement and to request one last report request to council it turns out that they had obtained the report that I’d just had my solicitor request but hadn’t included it in the sale contract for whatever reason and the result is that my land is eligible to build on according to clause 3(A) subclause d, item (i)… some really obscure clause but eligible! But that in itself was a letting go reminder as I’d started to get obsessive with my new property so lesson learned and now it’s all go with the flow.
So now that I actually have some interesting things to post I’ll be here a little more often as I have A LOT of things planned, a massive to do list and I’d like to take you on the journey. Even if I’m just writing this for myself for documentation sake I’ll be around a bit more. I’m toying with starting a Youtube channel as well but just toying with the idea at this stage.
so… YAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAYYYYYYYYY!!!!!! /happy dance
So things have been really quiet on the western front. The kind of quiet that gets eyed with suspicion but I’m trying to remain positive!
I mentioned last time we spoke that I’ve got my eye on a piece of land. That land is being subdivided from a larger parcel and has been sitting with the local council to be approved and finalised before it’s ready for sale. Last year I was in regular contact with the owner for fortnightlyish updates as it was almost done but since December I’ve rang and left a few messages and haven’t had a return phone call or text to let me know what’s going on…. My mind, of course, is running away with the pixies and jumping to all the wrong conclusions with all sorts of crap scenarios being turned over.
I’m so itchingly close to this whole thing being a reality (which in itself is a little unreal) but I’m chalking it up to the grand patience lesson that this land/homestead/house building journey is all about. Just gotta wait a little longer I guess. And I also had one of those weird thought moments about patience and time as I was feeling frustrated about being in limbo and nothing happening YET AGAIN. The thought was not so much about the waiting but what I’m actually doing with the time that I’ve been “given”. Instead of moping about and feeling sorry for myself I feel like I need to be doing constructive things with this time. I’m going to busy enough once I get the land and get going. At the moment I’m working on my Permaculture Design Certificate final assignment (on the new land of course) but I feel like I need to do more. Of what I don’t know. Maybe I just need to fkn relax? No idea 🙂
So I’m staying positive and just chalking it up to my ever lovin impatience as it is ONLY the third week of January… And councils are hella slow right? right?
Herro! So it dawned on me last night that we haven’t spoken in a while, yet again. So lemme get you up to speed without all the usual verbal diarrhea:
- The old place is SOLD! After a lil false start shortly after I last posted in which I had an offer and then it all fell through, three months after my last update it was a goner. The new people are really lovely and a perfect fit for the community.
- I’ve moved out and am currently residing with the mother parental unit
- I’ve been madly looking for a new plot of land to build my house as the previous dot point is going swell….
- I shouldn’t really complain as it could be a whole lot worse but we’re both so used to having our own space and being boss of the castle and I miss having my own space.
- I think I may have found somewhere to build! I’m going to have a second look next week so I hope to have an exciting update shortly. I’ve already had a chat with the bank and I’ve been given the green light so I think it’s just a matter of putting on the haggle hat and getting a good price.
- So many things swirling round my head with the potential of this new place, so many things I need and want to do!
- I miss my ducks.
Hope you and yours are well. Back soon 🙂
Soo…. my lil hiatus is officially over! Did you miss me?? So what have you been up to? How’s the farm and kids? What have you grown lately?
So I’ll be blooging regularly again. I’ve missed writing to you and quite frankly I’m not sure why I’ve been gone so long when we have so much to talk about. Here are some highlights of happenings while I’ve been gone:
Seriously though not much has changed since my last ramble. My place is still on the market, I’ve come close to getting an offer a couple of times but their finance has fallen through. I had an inspection last weekend with a really nice couple and I’m hopeful they love it enough to make an offer. It seemed to tick all the right boxes for them and it’s what they’re looking for so I’ll just have to be patient and wait to hear from them. I’ve got another inspection this coming weekend so that’s plan b I guess 🙂 One of the bonuses to having a house inspection is that my house is so sparkly and clean, it’s a really nice feeling.
Check out the sky the other day, it looked painted after the storm so I had to take pics 🙂
One thing that has changed is that I’ve started Geoff Lawton’s online Permaculture Design Course and totally loving it. I can’t remember if I mentioned wanting to do it here before (I’ll have to read my own blog!) but it’s turning out to be more than I hoped for and I’m seriously inspired and learning so much. I’ve had a few ideas on things to do around the place but I’m still going to move as there are too many things that just aren’t right about the place for me that even permaculture can’t remedy.
BUT I have found a new plot of land recently that would be just perfect to build my straw bale house upon. I’ve even come up with a name for it but I’m not going to share just yet as I don’t want to jinx it. And I need to sell this place first before I start looking too far ahead. I may or may not have looked up domain names and WordPress names for this place and contemplated buying a domain for it… again… trying not to jump the gun too much hehe.
Duck update: I’m down to two – Bruce and Blondie. I had 4 for the longest time and then 3 of them did a little disappearing act but came back a few weeks later after I’d rehomed the drake (Frank) who was left behind as he was stressed out living all alone. The two girls disappeared for a week a short while later and only Blondie came back so RIP Chicken, she always was a big ole scaredy cat. I was almost a grandmother again this year as Blondie went all broody in the coop again this last month but fate stepped in and the weekend that they were due to hatch, the eggs mysteriously disappeared. I have a feeling this big guy:
snuck in the coop and had himself a lil duck dinner. I’d seen him hanging around the house for a week or two and of course now that all the eggs are gone I haven’t seen him back. It’s also starting to get colder so that could also be why. While I love the ducklings cuz they’re so darn cute I really didn’t want them right now if I’m about to move out (depending whether the new owner is interested in keeping them of course) so while it’s sad that they were eaten, it’s also, selfishly, a good thing. The circle of life n all that.
Anyway I just wanted to pop my head in and see how you are, glad you’re well 🙂 I won’t be a stranger, I promise!
ffffffffftt fffffffffttt ooh sorry bout that… had to blow the dust off you. Hi remember me? 🙂 Still haven’t perfected that post from my head implant yet. Can you tell? Well so much has happened since my last post. Sadly Mummy and one of the boys (Doug) were taken on the same day. I found Doug half eaten and Mummy was just nowhere to be found so I’m not sure if she flew off and got lost or was taken away to be eaten in private. So now I’ve got two boys (Bruce and Frank) and two girls (Chicken and Blondie) left. I was going to post about it at the time but I think this blog was becoming The Duck Death Blog of DOOOOOM so decided not to. And I really felt the loss of Mummy as did the remaining babies, they were really lost for a couple of days. The other ducky deaths I’ve managed to kind of shrug off but I kept hoping every morning and afternoon when I went out to the coop that she’d be there, that she was just lost and found her way home. But it’s been a couple of months now so she’s gone 😦
Just one other duck update before I tell you about everything else that’s a bit more exciting that’s going on right now… You know how I was hoping that the girls wouldn’t inherit Mummy’s super broody biatch behaviour… This week Blondie started making a particular peep that the broodies do when they’re sitting on eggs and I’ve been watching the coop but haven’t seen any eggs yet so I didn’t think that they were laying yet. She was looking a lil ruffled and manky too and low and behold on Tuesday morning she didn’t come out of the coop for breakfast and was sitting on a feathered nest lookin all pleased with herself. BUGGER!! Luckily for me as I was driving off to work I spied her out of the coop so raced down and locked the coop up to try and break her broody. That afternoon I went to have a look at the spot she’d been sitting in and the sneaky bird had half buried her eggs and there were 15 of them! No wonder I couldn’t see anything. I’m not sure if they’re both laying in that spot or if it’s just Blondie but I’ll have to keep an eye on them now dangit. But the broodiness is broken for now PHEW! Also looks like there’s been a change in leadership as Bruce has always been the boss but since the spring Frank has taken over. He’s grown up to be the spitting image of his dad so it’s no wonder. And just as big of a doofus as his dad too (although he can fly pretty well suprisingly enough!) The boys get on OK for the most part but there’s occasional pecking order reminding going on. Them getting on with their sisters is a whole other topic that I won’t go into now.
But on to more exciting news…. my house is going on the market next week! You know how I’d posted that I’d have to wait and yadda yadda, well I met a neighbour who lives a couple of properties down from me and she mentioned that she’d had a real estate agent round (who sold a place in the valley recently within a month of listing) to give an evaluation of her place and she said that he already had a buyer lined up if she was interested in selling (which she isn’t). So that spurred me on and I contacted my bank to find out what the actual payout figure is to break the fixed portion of my loan and it’s WAAAAAYYYY less that what I thought and something I can definitely afford so I’m not going to wait a year. I’m going NOW!
So lately I’ve been busy packing and painting and doing little cheap cosmetic renos to make the place look really good and the same agent is coming over this weekend and I’m going to put it on the market. Fingers x-ed that buyer is still there at the ready but if not I know it’ll get sold pretty quickly. I found out yesterday that one of the properties that’s currently for sale on my road is under offer and it’s only been on the market for a month or two so my spirits are buoyed! It’ll be great to get moving on this dream of mine and I’m keeping an eye out on the land offerings. So yay for the new blog category “New House 2.0”. SO exciting! I’m excited but I’m still trying to remind myself of the patience lesson… I’ll post some pics of what I’ve been doing next post as I’ve just changed phones and all the pics are on my old phone 🙂